Does Your Kids Ready for the Real World?

If our children face trials, we pave the way for them. If they lose by a mile, we give them trophies for trying.

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We care for our children as if they were babies, we look after them like a fragile crystal and we pamper them as if they were completely incapable of surviving on their own. All I hear is the chorus: "As you wish, my dear". Are you preparing your children for the real world?

If our children face trials, we pave the way for them. If they lose by a mile, we give them trophies for trying. And when they have trouble coping with a big, bad world, it is never our fault to overprotect them or their fault for being helpless, but we condemn the system. So there are no losers.


Are we doing our children a favor by making life impossible for them? Or do we make it impossible for them to succeed when they go out into the real world - and reality falls right between their eyes?

What happens when our kids face competition, struggle with personal tragedy or challenge impossible opportunities? Will you tell your opponents to calm you down because you're fragile? Will you tell your peers to pull a little harder because you need a break? Will you tell your manager to promote you, not because you're the most worthy, but because it's his turn? Seriously! We fight their battles, we protect them from scoundrels and we pretend they do nothing wrong, even when the actions should have consequences. What do they learn," you ask yourself, "nothing! What will they do when there is no one to grease their skates, or to bail them out? These little favorites aren't going to make it. And there will be no one to protect them, guard them or catch them until they fall. It's all written in disaster.


Teach your children "How to fish.

Are you preparing your children for the real world? Here are 13 guides to help your children through life:

1.Be self-sufficient. Don't allow yourself to be too dependent on others. It can't be done for you, it has to be done for you.

2.Take charge of your life. Make the right decisions and take responsibility for your actions. Your life is determined by the number of choices you make.

3.Look at the facts in your face. Not every day is full of rainbows. Be prepared to accept the good with the bad, even roses have thorns.

4.Set realistic expectations. If you don't get what you want, you get what you deserve. That's it.

5.Dirty your hands. Start at the bottom and stay there until you show you can handle the big one.

6.Learn a thing or two. Let your mentor guide you, but never do anything for yourself. This will give you confidence and provide training.

7.Take your time. Don't bite off more than you can chew at first. Build confidence and momentum through small victories.

8.Don't blame yourself, learn. Make mistakes when the consequences are small. This way, you will know exactly how to deal with things when it matters most.

9.Don't babysit. Show a little courage when faced with difficulties. The definition is about forming a habit, just like the way out.
Take one for the team. Work hard. You are expected to carry your own weight, not the weight of the team.

10.Invest in yourself. Education and experience are priceless. Everything you learn makes you more valuable, and the benefits will stay with you for life.

11.Accept "no" as a gift. People who don't satisfy your every whim teach you "how to fish. They give you self-confidence, strength and security.

12.Work hard, work smart. Nothing is achieved without hard work, dedication and commitment. It takes many years to become a success at night.

Preparing your children for the real world

If you want the best for your children, give them a good education, inform them of good values and set them free. It's not easy to let go of the reins because we don't want our children to suffer. But, if you prepare your children for the real world, saying no to your children can be an act of love. Of course it can... ...but in time they will grow up confident and resilient and forever grateful for your loving gift. When they were young, many of their books ended with the phrase "They lived happily ever after. I have the feeling that if you follow that formula, your story will have a happy ending too.

Are you preparing your children for the real world?
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